
What is Gratitude and Why Is It So Important?
Initial Thoughts
- Gratitude & appreciation are powerful tools for enhancing wellbeing by fostering positive emotions & reducing stress.
- Regular practices like gratitude journaling & expressing appreciation can improve relationships & increase life satisfaction.
- Cultivating a habit of gratitude promotes resilience & can lead to a more fulfilling life.
This is a recording of my favourite radio station when they do something called tell me something good. To me it shows an example of how gratitude can have a ripple effect in people’s lives.
When you feel down in the dumps or find yourself in a funk, how do you cope? Do you turn to junk food, self-medication, shopping, etc.? One healthy, powerful, and free strategy to rise from this temporary emotional state is to practice gratitude.
What is Gratitude – Its Meaning & Definition
Gratitude is an emotion similar to appreciation. The American Psychological Association more specifically defines this phenomenon as a sense of happiness and thankfulness in response to a fortunate happenstance or tangible gift. Gratitude is both a state and a trait. Better explained, one can experience gratitude for someone or something at a certain moment in time, and someone experiences gratitude more long-term as a positive character trait.
According to experts the feeling of gratitude involves two stages:
First comes the acknowledgment of goodness in one’s life. In a state of gratitude, we say yes to life. We affirm that, all in all, life is good and has elements that make it worth living. The acknowledgment that we have received something gratifies us, both by its presence and by the effort the giver put into choosing it.
Second, gratitude is recognizing that sources of this goodness lie outside the self. One can be grateful to our creator, other people, animals, and the world, but not to oneself. At this stage, we recognize the goodness in our lives and who we want to thank for it.
The two stages of gratitude make up how we recognize some of the goodness in our lives and then how this goodness came to us. Through this process, we recognize the fortune of everything that improves our lives and ourselves. Also, gratitude can be considered either a dispositional trait or a state of being.
As a trait, an individual practices gratitude as part of their daily life, and it is considered a character strength. It is important to remember that gratitude is a strength that can be enhanced with awareness and practice. When a person experiences the emotion from someone expressing gratitude for them, it is referred to as a state.
Why Is It Important to Be Grateful?
Experts believe that sometimes our expectations have changed meaning, that there is less gratitude in western society. Possessions and health are expectations for many individuals rather than considered personal ‘blessings’ that are appreciated. Experts say, “Gratitude has, for many, been replaced by disappointment, anger, and resentment when these expected ‘blessings’ either do not appear or they disappear”.
We have learned gratitude helps people focus on the positive aspects of their life. Gratitude can help build and maintain relationships with others, resulting in hope, life satisfaction, and more proactive behaviors toward others.
The Importance of Gratitude in Life
Gratitude is strongly related to wellbeing. The positive effects of experiencing and expressing gratitude are endless.
Gratitude has been found to be beneficially associated with social wellbeing, emotional wellbeing, and psychological wellbeing. It is no surprise that trait gratitude is an important “predictor of wellbeing and other desirable life outcomes”.
Gratitude appears to have a domino effect. If a person experiences gratitude, they are more likely to recognize the help and then later reciprocate that help. People who are thanked are presumably more apt to extend help to others in the future.
Likewise, people who are not thanked may not be expected to provide reciprocation in the future. The expression of gratitude is beneficial for both individuals and society.
Further, gratitude is an element in many religions. For example,
- Buddhism – Gratitude is indicative of the concept of dependent origination, which implies that everything is interconnected. For Buddhists, awareness of our interdependent and interconnected existence evokes gratitude for the web of life that sustains us.
- Judaism – Individuals practicing Judaism may start the day with Modeh Ani, a short Hebrew blessing thanking God for life.
- Christianity – Christians denote gratitude to God by stating blessings. These blessings are said in a prayer form and are created for food, family, life, and any other blessings that God may grant.
As if you needed any more convincing, in a review of the literature, the experts have found that gratitude has a positive connection with positive mood and feelings of happiness, life satisfaction, forgiveness, and a negative affiliation with substance abuse and neurosis, as well as an opposite relationship between gratitude and anxiety and depression.
The Iceberg of Gratitude
Gratitude is the act of recognizing and acknowledging the good things that happen, resulting in a state of appreciation.
Often when we consider what we are grateful for, obvious and important life experiences, circumstances, and events come to mind. We may feel grateful for our upbringing and family, our job, good health, and the opportunity to gain an education. While recognizing and being grateful for these experiences is important, our gratitude practice must also venture below the surface.
Below the surface, we find all the simple, everyday pleasures that often go unnoticed. This may be the great book we had time to read, the laugh we had with a friend, or maybe even the joy of eating chocolate ice cream in the sunshine. Whatever these simple pleasures may be, consciously expressing our gratitude for them can really help us grow our gratitude practice beyond the surface level.

How to Show Gratitude and Appreciation
Gratitude can be demonstrated in many ways. It can be shown with merely a simple, verbal “thank you” or it can be indicated by a more elaborate practice, such as the strategies detailed below.
To improve your gratitude, reflect on how better you can show your appreciation to others. When verbally expressing gratitude to someone, consider reflecting on your emotions and on the effort involved. Here are some examples:
‘Your birthday gift to me makes me overjoyed. I appreciate the length you went to in order to find this limited edition book by my favorite author. I value that you know me so well and did this especially for me.’
‘Mom, I am grateful for the life you have given me. Even though it took 15 hours to deliver me and raising me was full of challenges, you have done the best you could and I appreciate that.’
‘Our Father in Heaven, you have blessed me with ten fingers and ten toes, eyes to see and ears to hear. I am grateful for the wonder of your creation and for sparing my life every day.’
Gratitude Journal
A gratitude journal involves writing down a few things that you are thankful for and can be done daily or weekly as you so choose. Keeping a gratitude journal is a good first step toward establishing gratitude, and it will help you identify and reflect on people, things, or events for which you are thankful.
There was a study by Nawa and Yamagishi 2021 that involved university students. It concluded that completing a gratitude journal not only positively impacts academic motivation, but it also had a positive influence on us when we set goals for ourselves to achieve. Here is the study.
In this study, 84 students were placed into either an active manipulation group (gratitude group) or a neutral control group. For two weeks, the active manipulation group was asked to list five things they were grateful for and evaluate various aspects of their daily lives, while the control group was only asked to do daily self-evaluations. Unsurprisingly, the gratitude group demonstrated significant enhancements in academic motivation.
How to Write a Gratitude Journal
I thought we could finish class by watching another funny dog video. This is the one I promised to add since we didn’t watch it on Thursday.



































































